And even if there are some girls, they’re usually in a pack. And in every girls’ group, there has to be a chaperone that defends her friends from men. It’s not uncommon for pick up artist guys to say ‘you got to isolate and distract their friends whilst being in the nightclub.’ I don’t agree with this. It was a metric of success that I measured myself for years. If I wasn’t off being social, I was off chasing some girl. Either that, I NEED be travelling to some new country to explore the world, in the name of ‘self development’. In the pick up artist community, it’s not uncommon for men to discuss their sex lives in solely quantified manner.

If the friends are still looking at me, I introduce myself. I won’t go out of my way to shake hands with someone, but I’m not anti-social or lazy. There’s a line between rudeness and trying too hard, that you identify from experience. Sometimes I can walk up and grab her attention with my presence alone.

They are humble enough to put in the work and learn all aspects of social dynamics. The difference between crappy game and good game is how grounded, calm-looking your interactions are.

There’s a reason you see guys like James Bond do stuff like this. Save yourself some pride, man up and go direct. Approach and deliver the opener to the friend initially ignoring the target for only the first seconds. With the mind set you must embody the 5 C’s I have found to be in Natural Gamers or “The Naturals” as we call them.

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Another example is to reply to a serious question with a stupid answer. So if a girl asks what you do for work, reply with “I was put on this planet to find you, job done”. Listen for the answer and build the conversation from there. If she replies to your question with “I’m heading to London”, try and think up something interesting or witty to say about London in reply. You’ll be able to tell in a matter of seconds if your personalities click. So there is no need to straight up interogate a girl on her hobbies and interests in the hope of finding a connection.

Then, without removing her from the group or her friend I make sure to touch her shoulder and angle her body away from them so that her back is turned to them. This has many benefits, the main one of which is that she is not longer looking at her friends and feeling judged or overheard. That doesn’t excuse you from having a rock solid plan of what you’re going to say, what you’re going to do, and how you’re going to do it – but that’s what training is for. Your sexual desire is natural and healthy. Our society tells us our sexuality is bad, but we should still try to get sex whenever we can.

The others in the group look at me, then they watch for her reaction to me. If she likes me, they will relax and talk amongst themselves.

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